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The Greatest Youth Ministry Game Ever

Thursday, July 31st, 2008

First I’ll tell you why it’s awesome, then I’ll tell you what it is.

1) Group Size is Flexible. You can play with 4 or 400 (but if you have 400 you’ll need a big field).

2) Player Size Is Irrelevant. I’m pretty good at this game, but one of our 8th graders who is half my height and weight can easily hold his own when I’m defending him; Unlike Basketball where I dominate 8th graders :)

3) Necessary Skill Level is Flexible. It takes one game to become proficient enough to participate. I’ve never met anyone who couldn’t pick the game up in a few minutes. However, that doesn’t mean the more athletic teens get left out. If a person can run, knows how to watch a field, and can find holes in a defense, then there’s plenty of opportunity for them to be brilliant.

The name of the game: Ultimate Frisbee.

4 Tips to Surviving A Youth Ministry Road Trip

Wednesday, July 30th, 2008

Youth Ministry road trips are great for community, and are a lot of fun. But I always burnout when we get about half way home. Here’s what I’ve found helps.

1) The co-piolet
This is the number one key for me. I prefer an adult because they can take over and drive if necessary. If I don’t have an adult, I’m very selective about who sits in the co-pilot seat and when they sit there.
I try to be subtle arranging this, but I make sure I have a student who needs more attention riding shotgun on the way to the event. That way I can focus all my ministerial skills on giving them the attention they need. Then, on the way home, when I’m exhausted I make sure I have an easy-to-get-along-with teen for a co-pilot. That help decrease the odds of me going insane.
2) Music
I save my best stuff for last, because that’s when I need it the most. Right now David Crowder is about as good as it gets for me.
3) Lie
I’m not above stopping for food and calling all my adults together to have a “meeting” that teenagers aren’t invited to. Sometimes, we all just need a break.
4) Hire a Bus Driver
I know it’s expensive, and I prefer to be as cheap as possible, but I just took 40 teens to a Steubenville Youth Conference, and we decided to take bus. This was a first for us, and I have to admit, I loved it. Almost the entire ride home I got to hang out with the teens and chat about anything and everything. It was great, I wasn’t stressed, I didn’t want to throw anyone out a window, and I got some great relational ministry time it. If you can afford the expense, hiring a bus driver will make your ministry a lot easier.

What our Catholic Teens Suggested

Friday, July 25th, 2008

We were planning our calendars for next year but we weren’t sure socials the teens might want (there was some disagreement . . . I’m sure you understand what I’m saying).

So, I used the wordpress plugin “wp-polls” to put a poll on our youth ministry blog and I emailed and facebooked all the teens I could. I sent out about 200 emails, and here are the results from the poll.

What socials do you want us to organize next year?

* 6-Flags (66%, 21 Votes)
* Lock-In (63%, 20 Votes)
* Dodge Ball (53%, 17 Votes)
* Pool Party (50%, 16 Votes)
* Pizza Movie Night (44%, 14 Votes)
* Football Tailgates (44%, 14 Votes)
* Corn Maze (44%, 14 Votes)
* Ice-Skating (34%, 11 Votes)
* Flag-Football Game (34%, 11 Votes)
* Scavanger Hunt (34%, 11 Votes)
* Video Game Tournament (31%, 10 Votes)
* Capture the Flag (31%, 10 Votes)
* Miniature Golf (28%, 9 Votes)
* Black-Light Basketball (25%, 8 Votes)
* Rollerblading (16%, 5 Votes)

Total Voters: 32

More software that made my job easier

Wednesday, April 16th, 2008

A couple times a year I give our teens a CD (or VCD) of pictures (or videos) we took during the year. My computer came with Roxio preinstalled, and I have never liked the program. Sometimes when I try to use their “Classic Creator” it says it can’t burn the CD because their “Drag to Disk” feature is running . . . they are both part of Roxio, so why is there a conflict?

I’ve been playing around with Ubuntu lately and they recommend Window’s users download a free CD/DVD burning program called infraRecorder. This program is fantastic. It doesn’t have the shiny round buttons that most Windows programs seem to have these days, but the simple square buttons work great.

Black Light Basketball Follow-up

Wednesday, April 9th, 2008

Here’s what worked and what didn’t work at our Black Light Basketball game.

Lights

My biggest concern was whether or not we would have enough lights to fill a gym. We had just enough; We could see everyone well enough that no one got hurt. I wouldn’t recommend doing this with any less light than we had.

After taking a look at the two $30 UV cannons we originally planned on renting, we decided to upgrade to two $40 UV cannons. We also had eight more 2-foot black lights loaned or given to the youth ministry.

I asked several parents how many 2-foot lights they though equaled the light produced by one UV cannon. The consensus was that between six and eight 2-foot black lights equaled one UV cannon. But, the cannons had mirrors behind the lights that helped focus the lights, while our 2-foot lights weren’t as efficient because half the light went the wrong way. I think we could duct tape four of our 2-foot lights together and slide a mirror between the light and the case to help make them more efficient. They wouldn’t be as good as the professionally made mirrors, but they wouldn’t cost as much either.

The Glow

When I found out that white t-shirts don’t glow under black lights unless they’ve been washed, I got nervous about what else would and wouldn’t glow.

We used a glow-in-the-dark basketball, and it did okay. I considered buying some neon tape to stick to the ball.

I washed the basket ball nets and that was a success. I really don’t think we could have played the game if the nets didn’t glow. I’m sure we would have come up with a workaround of some kind, but washing the nets was definitely a good decision.

We also bought glow-stick necklaces to tell which players were on which teams. They worked beautifully, but they were the other big expense for the event. I bought them at a local party shop, but if you’re better at planning ahead than I am, you can get them cheaper online.

Parents

I love the parents at my church. We had one coach show up to help, which was great because he knew how to handle large groups of energetic teenagers. Another couple parents organized all the food, drinks, and snacks without me even asking them to. And a couple more just came to hang out. This morning, one mom stopped by my office and gave me my yearly compliment :P

Money

This event ended up costing about twice what I had expected. Fortunately, this is the only expensive event we planned this year (summers trips not included).

Teens

My other big concern was that I didn’t know how many teens might show up, and only so many people can fit on a basketball court. I didn’t do a headcount but I would guess we had between 30-40 teens at the event. We had about half the teens playing at a time, which worked because they got tired and needed a breather (Thanks to the coach for organizing that). As our ministry grows, I think we could still do this event by splitting up the students by grades. So we might have Friday night just for the 9th and 10th graders and Saturday night for the 11th and 12th graders.

Side Note

I just spoke with one of the teens who was at the basketball game and found out that after the game she went to a school dance. The reason I bring this up is that we occasionally hear the excuse that a teen would come to our events if we did a better job of scheduling them on nights that didn’t already have another school function planned. But, the truth is that if our ministry is a priority in the teen’s life, they will somehow make the rest of their schedule work; if our ministry isn’t important to them, they won’t come even if they don’t have anything else to do. It’s important for us to be sensitive to the teens’ other activities, but double-scheduling is inevitable.