The easiest and most effective thing our ministry ever did was organize a Prayer Ministry. Here is why we did it, and the steps we took to get the ministry going.
I had recently listened to a talk given by Fr. Pat Martin who works with people who have various disabilities. Years ago he organized a group of business people to raise money to build a new center for his ministry. They planned some brilliant fundraisers, but each one failed because of a detrimental act of nature such as “fog as thick as pea soup” which made the state shut down several major roads and effectively canceled their fundraiser. Eventually, Fr. Pat realized they had left Christ out of their plans; they were trying to do ministry without God. Fr. Pat immediately canceled their next fundraiser and they all went on a prayer pilgrimage where they turned all their work over to God. After that, God blessed their efforts and their center was built.
The same thing happened at my church. My first couple of years here I worked between ten and twelve hours a day, planned all kinds of retreats and events, and studied tirelessly to lean how to be a better youth minister. All of my efforts resulted in a ministry that limped along. I felt like a failure, and to be completely honest, I almost quit; If I couldn’t help this ministry, I felt I should get out of the way and let someone else be in charge. And that, of course, is exactly what God wanted me to do – to get out of his way and let him be in charge.
We organized a simple prayer ministry in order to bring our ministry in alignment with God’s will, and since then, God has been honoring those prayers and blessing this church. Great leaders have shown up who are taking ownership of the ministry; Great teens have shown up who are open to God’s love. This is an exciting time to be a youth minister at this church, and the best part is it’s not about me, it’s all about God.
Finding new volunteers is usually the most difficult part of this job, but I had no trouble finding people to join our Prayer Ministry.
- Start by praying – right now.
- Every November my parish sends out “Time, Talent, and Treasure” surveys inviting people to participate in our church’s various ministries. With my Youth Commission’s blessing, I added a category called “Prayer Ministry.” The first year we sent that survey out fifteen people signed up . . . it was that easy.
- If you don’t have a “Time, Talent, and Treasure” survey, or don’t want to wait until next November (please, don’t wait until next November), email, call, or talk to as many parents as possible. This is such a simple ministry and almost everyone agrees in the importance of prayer, so inviting people to pray is relatively easy.
- We sent those fifteen a letter (which I will include so you can see how unimpressive it was) inviting them to a meeting at which we would organize the Prayer Ministry. Five people showed up and they were all carrying calendars – It was the perfect number and they were the perfect people for an organizational meeting.
- At the bottom of this article, I will include the agenda for our first meeting. We basically wanted to answer two questions:
- Why we wanted to do this (our mission statement)
- How we wanted to do this (our strategy)
- We came up with half a dozen great ideas but we all agreed to keep this as simple as possible.
- Here is what we do:
- Once a month, 30 minutes before our first Confirmation meeting of the month, we pray the rosary for our teens in the Eucharistic chapel. . . Yep, that’s it. There are other ideas and projects in the works, but our foundation is always the rosary.
- One important thing to do is to find someone else to officially lead the ministry.
- One of those original five is the leader of our Prayer Ministry. That means once a month, about a week before the meeting, she sends out an email to people she knows, including me, which reminds me to send out an email to the parents. My job is to support, empower, and encourage her ministry. Remember our job is “to equip the holy ones for the work of ministry” (Ephesians 4:12).
- We’ve also set up a Google calendar and put announcements in the bulletin, but emails and personal invitations seem to be the most effective way to invite new people to pray with us.
- When necessary, the original five will stick around after the rosary to discuss other plans.
If you don’t already have people praying for your ministry, get a Prayer Ministry started today (Pray Now). Don’t plan anything, just connect with some parents, get them together, and let them plan and run the ministry. God will bless you if you humbly turn your ministry over to him.
The letter I sent:
Dear <VOLUNTEER’S NAME – with only 15 letters to write, I thought typing their individual names was worth the effort>
Thank you for your interest in joining our Youth Ministry’s Prayer Ministry.
We’re going to have our first meeting <DATE>, at <TIME>, in <LOCATION>.
Since this is a new ministry (one that is long overdue) we need to get ourselves organized. That will be the purpose of our first meeting: to decide exactly how we want to work together to pray for our youth ministry.
I have a few ideas, but I would like for you to bring ideas to the meeting as well. Here are a few questions that might help you come up with some ideas:
- Who exactly do we want to pray for (teens, volunteers, sponsors, parents, etc.)?
- How do we want to pray?
- Do we need/want to meet regularly? Should we organize a method for praying together, or on our own, or both?
I’ll serve you a delicious dinner, so if you’re going to come, please RSVP so I’ll know how much food to bring. My email is: <YOUR EMAIL ADDRESS>
If you have questions please call or email me.
Working with you in ministry,
<YOUR NAME>
First Meeting’s Agenda:
- Pray
- Food and Chat (Get to know each other.)
- Pick someone to take meeting notes.
- Brainstorm Mission Statement (Why We Are Here):
- Our Prayer Ministry exists to pray for every person, program, and event connected to the Youth Ministry, and to invite other people to pray with us.
- Brainstorm how we want to fulfill our Mission Statement:
- Prayer sponsors – make bookmarks/business cards/refrigerator magnets/etc. with teen’s name and give them out after masses.
- Traveling Youth Ministry Prayer Candle.
- Bulletin announcements
- Pictures of Confirmation candidates
- Monthly Rosary (This is the idea that developed into the backbone of our Prayer Ministry.
- Do we need to meet again to get organized? If so, what exactly is the goal of that meeting?
- Closing Prayer
- Impromptu prayer by me, then I asked everyone if there was anything going on in their lives they would like us to pray for, and we closed with an Our Father.